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How young is too young for social media? [#socialmedia – EB]

Social Media apps

Hi all, EB here! I wanted to talk tonight about a topic that has been an issue in my household and I would love to hear your feed back! So…how young is too young for social media? Where do you draw the line? It’s these questions that my husband and I are dealing with right now  with our 10-year-old daughter.

It happened about 6 months when my daughter asked me to charge the iPod so she could use to play games on at her volleyball tournament. Of course I agreed, those tournaments get extremely boring. Like bang your head against the wall boring. I was putting away laundry in my closet when I saw it light up with a notification with a very familiar icon…SNAPCHAT! That’s right people! In my opinion it’s one of the scariest of the social media sites. If you’re not familiar with it, it’s an app you can download that allows you to send a picture to an individual that they can see anywhere from 1-10 sec and then it disappears, not to be seen again. If you don’t have your settings correct ANYONE can send you a picture. This app is huge with the sexting fans. Not that I’m worried about my daughter sending unnecessary photos of her self to others. It’s more of what people could send to her.

Unfortunately the internet is not like it was when I was growing up. I know I’m making myself sound old but it’s the truth. I still remember the dial-up internet just waiting to see what nice people I could talk to in the different chat rooms. It’s back when everything was so innocent and before all the creepers invaded the world-wide web. I went as far as exchanging my home address with two people (one was a boy) to be pen pals. We talked about swimming, how our practices compared to each others and what school was like. Very innocent. But it’s not like that anymore and to be quite honest it scares me to death. I’m not stupid, there will come a time that my daughter will get to enter that world of social media. That’s inevitable. We live in a world of technology but when do you put your foot down?

My daughters friends and her cousin all have iPhone and are all allowed access to these apps. I am in no way looking down at these parents because they are all very kind, sweet people and their children are the same but I just feel that my child should not be exposed to this yet. Am I the only one who feels that same way? Because I’m starting to feel like I am the only one who does. Yes I could monitor what she does and who she communicates with but once a picture is sent on snap chat you have no way to see what was ever sent.

@adabot on @snapchat

@adabot on @snapchat (Photo credit: adafruit)

So needless to say when I saw this notification pop up on my iPod I freaked out. Who are these people, why is this happening. Once I talked to her and tried to explain how dangerous what she was doing was I was promised nothing like this would happen again. But not 4 months later she downloaded the app on my parents iPad and sent me a picture through Snapchat. All I could do smack my head. Did she really just do that? My daughter is academically very smart but lacks in the common sense department which she proved very clearly when she did that. Needless to say she was grounded when she got home and tried to explain it to her again the dangers. As I was looking through at who was sending her pictures, two names did not look familiar and I asked her about them. Sure enough she had no idea who they were or how they got her screen name. I believed her ( I’m great at catching her lying – it’s a gift of mine I’m very proud of) and then I immediately deleted her account on Snapchat.

I still don’t think she gets it. How far do I go to scare her not to do this? She is only 10. Think back on what you did at 10 years old.

I was a young mother and it still blows my mind on how quickly the web has evolved in such a little time. I guess all I can do is stick to my guns and hope and pray that I have raised her right so that when she gets older she makes the right decisions in life.

Thanks for listening!

♥EB

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Jamma Lamma [#busymomproblems]

Roller Derby - Skate of Emergency

Roller Derby – Skate of Emergency (Photo credit: Gomisan)

I just want to do everything – all at the same time.  I see new things that I want to try (right now I’m obsessing over Roller Derby) and I drop what ever project I was previously working on in favor of the new one.  And I somehow think I can do all of these crazy ideas while maintaining a livable house, working full-time, and spending quality time with the family.

I’m doing the same thing with the kids – I signed TicksJr up for about twelve activities this summer.  I can’t help it.  Everything just looks so exciting… but WTH, YOLO right? (Isn’t that what the kids are saying these days?

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This is where my obsession with Roller Derby has led me thus far – a llama on roller skates with a Jammer helmet.  I can’t join the Glass City Rollers because of my work schedule, so I had the (probably-not-so) brilliant idea that I would start a Roller Derby team… I have been advised that it is very a long, difficult, & expensive road… but it’s still fun so far.  The team name I came up with is NW Ohio Jamma Lammas.  Doesn’t make any sense, right?  I know.  I love it.

Where the heck do you think we could practice?  I called about an elementary school’s gym {the school is closed}, but I’m still waiting to hear back… Any other ideas?

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Share a Recipe with Quick Meals 4 Mamas [#QM4M]

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A mere listing of ingredients is not protected under copyright law. However, where a recipe or formula is accompanied by substantial literary expression in the form of an explanation or directions, or when there is a collection of recipes as in a cookbook, there may be a basis for copyright protection. Note that if you have secret ingredients to a recipe that you do not wish to be revealed, you should not submit your recipe for registration, because applications and deposit copies are public records. SeeFL 122Recipes.

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Dealing with Car Sickness [#TuesdayTips]

The Road Ahead

The Road Ahead (Photo credit: mkrigsman)

My husband and stepson unfortunately have to deal with car sickness.  Although my stepson only has a touch of it, my husband is really really bad.  He can’t ride in a car for more than five minutes if he isn’t driving without getting sick…  Here are some tips we’ve picked up a long the way:

1.  Don’t eat sugary foods, acidic foods, dairy, or fried foods during the hour before you are taking a long(ish) drive.

2.  Take ice cold water or Powerade/Gatorade along with you.  Bonus points if you have a straw.

3.  Turn on the air conditioning or crack a window.  Cold air helps – and it helps even more if it blows into your face.

4.  Don’t try to read or play video games.

5.  Get out an walk for at least five minutes every hour of driving.  If you start to feel sick, try to pull over and walk for a few minutes.

6.  Avoid curvy, hilly or stop & go roads as much as possible.

7.  Use ‘Sea Bands’ (Adult Sea Bands or Child Sea Bands).

8.  Bring along saltines to snack on (or some other type of cracker that doesn’t have a lot of flavor).

9.  We haven’t tried Ginger pills or Ginger Lollipops, but I’ve heard people recommend them.

10.  And (for us they’re a last resort), medication like Dramamine.

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TicksJr’s ‘Cheese’ Face [#TBT]

5930_1140757631611_6696904_nThis picture is from when TicksJr was about 1.5 yrs and perfectly illustrates what I used to call his ‘Cheese Face’.  If anyone asked him for a smile, he would scrunch up his little nose and squint his little blue eyes and give them a big toothy smile.  I love it.

Jojo has a similar ‘Cheese Face’ that she makes – I’ll have to capture it in a photo and put it up here sometime…

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